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Speak and Present Yourself Confidently Anywhere
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Do You Express Your
Thoughts and Feelings * Do You Understand People's Emotions and Behaviors?
* Do You Speak Up for Yourself and Ask for Feedback?
* Do You Comfortably Interact With Others?
Janet said "Yes" to all the above.
When I met her, she was anxiously avoiding meeting the firm's new marketing clients, finding excuses to be other places, doing other things. She felt embarrassed and inadequate because her brain froze when she had to interact with them. She was sure her suggestions on their projects were stupid. Moreover, she feared she would be fired if her boss discovered her "poor" performance.
But 6 months later, she was not only comfortably greeting new clients but also confidently taking the lead in helping them structure
their marketing campaigns—along with a 15%
raise in salary.
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Your Name: Your
Email:
Dr.
Signe A. Dayhoff If
Long to
interact with others comfortably at work and elsewhere ...
Imagine being able to
understand others' moods, emotions, and behaviors Desire
to effortlessly make small talk, speak up for yourself, give a presentation, or talk on the phone ... Yearn
to influence others to think and act as you want Imagine
being confident and competent in all your
interactions
...
Then
You ...
Present
your ideas calmly and clearly whenever you need or want
to ...
Skyrocket your Now!
You can communicate effectively with people almost anytime, anywhere
...
And transform your
social interactions. (This
may sound too good to be true ... but it is true. I
know ... because I've been there ... and ... I've done it!) Why Should You Listen to Me? I'm
Signe A. Dayhoff, Ph.D., your master social effectiveness
mentor. As a recovered social phobic
... a social psychologist ... and a people skills and interpersonal communications expert, I know how
it is to want to speak and present yourself comfortably and confidently, saying
the right things to connect with people
I
couldn't stand up for myself. I couldn't ask for feedback on what I had done
when I needed it. I never knew what to say to connect to others. I was unable to
handle conflict of any kind. Because I had difficulty reading others' reactions to
me, I tended Sound familiar? My struggle with anxiety in social situations
and interpersonal communication came before these problems were the focus they
are today.
As a result, I spent about 1,087 hours doing research to figure out what I
needed to do to reverse this situation.
With patience, persistence, and practice I finally overcame my
communication- and self-presentation obstacles ... in my personal life and in
the workplace.
What an indescribably tremendous relief that reversal was ... and is! Because
I know so many of you also have struggled with these
problems, I have worked with many hundreds of
you to see what skills and help you needed. With
respect to self-presentation anxiety, I have
talked with the top clinical researchers in the field and tapped into their experiences,
expertise, and findings. (Many
of them were kind enough to endorse my social anxiety book as a result.) With
respect to interpersonal communication and people skills, I have worked personally with nonverbal communications expert Dr. Clara Mayo.
done extensive research in social effectiveness, and received training in emotional intelligence
coaching from well-known experts.
The upshot is that over the last
27+ years I have gathered the best proven tools and developed
a wide range of effective, systematic interpersonal
communication and behavioral strategies that can help you too
...
And
... the GOOD NEWS is
..., like Janet, you don't
have to go through the deadly slow, Just
Imagine
Being Able To
Speak effectively with
anyone about anything
Use
solid people skills to help you reach your work goals
Present
the image you want to get your message across
Interact
with your boss or supervisor comfortably like a peer
Develop
satisfying customer relationships
Promote
yourself in a way that is rewarding and gives meaning and
Just
Imagine
How That Could Change Your Life ... in as Few as 3 Months!
FACT:
To
do this you have to eliminate
the obstacles
to presenting yourself
and
replace them with
As Napoleon Hill stated in his book Think
and Grow Rich, "What the mind can
If you can conceive of and believe in your
becoming confident and competent
How?
You
Do It By Discovering How To
Understand
what people's moods and emotions mean Comfortably
speak out when you need or want to Express
your thoughts and feelings clearly and accurately Master
handling verbal conflicts with colleagues and bosses Condition
your emotions and thinking to automatically work toward Deep-six
fears of negative evaluation, failure,
being at risk, or rejection for speaking Eliminate communication procrastination
and perfectionism Identify
and build on your
Use
your interpersonal skills to influence how others
think and act.
Using
the 5 "Rs,"
Janet
Replaced
...
Reprogrammed
her unproductive thinking, emotions, and behavior
Removed
thinking, emotional, and behavioral
obstacles
Recreated
herself for the social success
she
desired
Revitalized
her
personal and work relationships to achieve her
dreams.
...
And Become More Socially Effective ...
Do
You Want to Finally Break Free? You
Owe
It to Yourself to Do It ...
... With my free weekly e-zine, the "Master Social Effectiveness—Speak Without You
get on-target suggestions, tips, stories, events, news, announcements, and - Master people skills
Dr.
Signe
mailto:DrSigne@MasterSocialEffectiveness.com
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